When it’s frigid cold outside, no wonder your sex life gets icy. Forget heating up the bedroom with passion – you’re just trying to stay warm! While I know you’re busy just trying not to freeze your buns off, it’s still important to keep the sparks alive in your relationship. Despite the cold winter weather, there are some things you can do to stoke the flames.

• Bring back date night. Are you sitting on the couch watching reality TV night after night? Get off your bums and go on a date! Take your Tiger man to a wild nightclub or your Pig man to a nice, quiet French restaurant. Chivalry isn’t dead – you just need to bring it back.

• Get cozy. No, not with your snuggie. Make time to cuddle with you man before you go to bed or while you’re lounging in front of the fire. A Rabbit guy will love a luxurious backrub while your Rooster man will go nuts for a little foot action. Make touching a priority – it always revs up the engine.

• Get in the kitchen. Cayenne pepper, cinnamon, allspice – the flavors of winter and spicy dishes can act as an aphrodisiac to your sex life. Your Ox man? The quickest way to his pants is through his stomach! Brew up some sauce and let him lick it off your fingers.

• Wear something cute. It’s easy to throw on your ratty sweats when it’s freezing, but go invest in some cute pajamas. Your Horse man will love something athletic looking, while a Snake man will die for silk PJs. You’ll be amazed at how much it helps.

Remember, keeping the fires of passion stoked takes effort. Don’t just fall into your boring winter routine, or before you know it, you’ll be wondering what happened to your libido altogether! Want to know more about you and your honey’s sign compatibility? Click here.