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Right around Valentine’s Day, we all start thinking about love. Love is gentle. Love is kind. (Or sometimes love is downright mean when it pulls the rug out from under you!) Anyway, you get the idea. We’re all focused on it – whether it’s expressing our sentiments to a spouse or sharing a special day with our kids.
But did you know that his Chinese Element has a lot to do with how he loves you? Yep. Whether he’s Water, Wood, Earth, Metal, or Fire, he’s got his own signature style. Here are the deets on each one:
Water Man: If your man was born in a Water year -- well – lucky you.
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Tiger month can be one heck of a ride. Claws are out, fangs are sharpened, and people are ready to pounce! The energy of this animal is strong, fierce, and assertive. And if you have a Tiger in your life (or are one yourself) you know exactly what we’re talking about. Here are five tips for getting along with a Tiger, whether it’s your spouse, your boss, or your best friend:
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Be loyal. If you want to make good with a Tiger, you’re going to have to be a loyal partner. Tigers need to know that you’re there for them in their darkest hour (or even when they need you for something small).
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When it’s frigid cold outside, no wonder your sex life gets icy. Forget heating up the bedroom with passion – you’re just trying to stay warm! While I know you’re busy just trying not to freeze your buns off, it’s still important to keep the sparks alive in your relationship. Despite the cold winter weather, there are some things you can do to stoke the flames.
• Bring back date night. Are you sitting on the couch watching reality TV night after night? Get off your bums and go on a date! Take your Tiger man to a wild nightclub or your Pig man to a nice, quiet French restaurant. Chivalry isn’t dead – you just need to bring it back.
• Get cozy.
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By Mara Tyler
It’s that time of year again. But before you go buying tons of holiday decorations and cramming presents in your closets, it’s probably a good idea to Feng-Shui your home for the holidays. The added energy of clutter, Christmas trees, presents (and not to mention family members!) can change the vibrations of your home. It’s great to deck the halls and get into the spirit of the holidays, but do it right. A little preparation and a nod toward basic Feng Shui practices will keep your nest harmonious and cozy all winter long. Here are some ideas for things to incorporate into the nine areas that make up the ba-gua map of your home.
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Fame/Reputation: For this area, add some bright, burning candles.
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By Mara Tyler
As the holidays approach, it’s the time of year to think about the ones you love – or the ones that you want to strangle! Getting along with your clan can be tough this time of year, but Chinese Astrology can help. Here are a few things to keep when dealing with your loved ones during Rat month:
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Stay Close.
Your kiddos, spouse, or friends might be a bit more clingy, so try to please them by staying close when they need you. Plan some fun activities with everyone you love so they feel special – and don’t leave anyone out!
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Help Out.
Rat month reminds you to pitch in and help out.
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By Mara Tyler
In case you’ve been living under a rock, you should probably know that the two stars of the popular Twilight series, Robert Pattinson and Kristen Stewart, don’t only share on-screen chemistry as lovers: they’re real-life sweethearts as well.
But is their relationship destined for success or will these two vampire idols become just another chapter in the Hollywood romance history book? Where else to look but astrology to find out?!
So, here’s the deal: Robert is a Fire Tiger, born in May (which also makes him a Taurus). Kristen happens to be a Metal Horse and Aries.
I mean, really.
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Think relationships are as simple as your sign compatibility? Think again. Ever wonder why someone who’s supposed to be a good match for your sign ends up driving you crazy? Aren’t Rats and Dragons supposed to get along great? How is it that a Pig and a Snake can make it work? The answer is more complicated than you might think and it all has to do with the Chinese Elements.
In Chinese Astrology, there are five fundamental elements that make up the world – Metal, Earth, Fire, Water, and Wood. Additionally, each Chinese Animal sign is associated with one of those elements.
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As the Chinese New Year approaches on February 3rd, we look forward to the Year of the Metal Rabbit. Did you know, however, that each month in the year is also ruled by one of the Chinese Zodiac animals? This means that each month, although shaped by the influences of the Year Animal, also favors certain things based on what Month Animal is in charge. The first month of the year happens to be ruled by the Tiger – the ferocious, energetic, and ambitious sign that helps us start each year with a bang! When it comes to love, here are some things to remember during a Tiger month
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Men aren’t from Mars – they’re just from a foreign country and speak a different language. Trying to crack the code can often be as frustrating as figuring out complicated Algebra equations, but it’s not entirely impossible. If there is one question that can keep a woman awake at night, it’s probably this: Does he like me? Lose sleep no more. As long as you know your guy’s Chinese animal sign, you can decipher his behavior with the accuracy of a cultural anthropologist. Ok, well, maybe not that accurately, but it’s a start. Here are some “I Like You” clues to look for based on his sign:
Rat: A Rat man usually looks for a smart, funny gal-pal type. Is he calling you just to chat? Asking you to come to his sister’s dance recital? This guy typically will treat you like his best friend who he’s also totally crazy about.
Ox: Oxen guys tend to express their feelings in practical ways.
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The start of the New Year can be somewhat of a downer if you’re lonely and looking for love. Must I be reminded that I still don’t have a ring on my finger or someone to make vacation plans with?! While you might be the most fabulous single girl on the block, we all have our moments of insecurity when we wish we there was a guy around to warm up those cold winter nights. With the start of the Chinese New Year right around the corner, however, maybe it’s time to stop sulking and start showing off how amazing you are – single or not. In fact, the Year of the Rabbit is a perfect time to turn inward, pay attention to your own needs, and act with class and confidence.
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The holidays are upon us, so let the shopping stress commence! While women seem to be easy to buy gifts for—get us anything that pampers, indulges, or beautifies and we’re set—men always pose an interesting challenge. What do you buy for the guy in your life? If you still haven’t figured out his preferences, a little help from the stars might be in order. Whether it’s your husband, brother, mailman, grandpa, or platonic male friend, here are some gift-buying tips for the men in your life: - Go-Go Gadget. Not to discredit the historical contributions of females, but there’s a reason why man invented the light bulb and learned to walk on the moon. It seems guys have an inherent need to tinker–especially Monkeys and Sheep.
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As if the holidays aren’t stressful enough, the added pressure of seasonal social functions is enough to make you sweat. You have enough work parties, family gatherings, and cookie exchanges to keep your head spinning the entire month of December. How do you make a good impression on your new boyfriend’s parents, the company CEO, or your distant relatives? Show off your good side and hide the bad, of course! Here are some things to remember during your merry mingling this year: - Dress up
Even if you expect an event to be casual, first impressions are key. If you’re meeting your future in-laws or trying to rub elbows with your boss, make sure you’re polished.
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Feng shui master Lin Yun Rimpoche teaches a feng shui method of applying the ba-gua map as an eight-sided map to rooms, buildings, and lots. Use of the ba-gua map has become popular because it is easy to understand and brings excellent results. "Ba" means eight in Chinese and "gua" means tri-gram. A tri-gram is a symbol made of three lines stacked on top of each other. A solid line represents yang masculine energy. A broken line represents yin feminine energy. The eight guas of the ba-gua map correspond to natural elements and life experiences.
It is in the balance of all eight guas that we find harmony and contentment. Each gua does not exist in isolation from the other guas. There is reciprocity between all areas of life experience.
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The Year of the Metal Rabbit is almost here. What does that mean for your love life? Romance, of course! The Rabbit favors all things flowery and sentimental, so get ready to be swept off your feet. Wondering how to spice up your love life? Here are eight great dates that will fly favorably under the Rabbit’s reign: - Art and wine festival. Wherever you live, you’re bound to find an art and wine festival. The Rabbit favors refinement and elegance, so you’ll surely hit it off tasting some peppery Zinfandel and admiring beautiful paintings. Impress your date with your knowledge of the Impressionist movement and you might really fan those love flames.
- Dancing.
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So, you and your honey have parted ways. If you made it through the initial split, bravo! But what happens now? While breakups are never easy, it can be even harder to deal with the mess they leave behind. Here are six important things to avoid post-split so things don’t get any muckier than they already are: - Communication with your ex. Seems obvious, right? But, we often start calling, emailing, or texting soon enough. Sometimes it’s out of loneliness, or maybe things seem unfinished and we want to hash out the details – again. Either way, don’t do it. If you’re a Rat, you might be more prone to pick up the phone (you love to talk) but resist the urge.
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While there’s no shortage of reasons to dump a guy – he’s bad in bed, his feet stink, etc. – you can usually work on the little things if you really dig him. Right? But how do you know when it’s truly time to cut ties with your man? There are some things that just aren’t OK for any self-respecting female to tolerate. Here’s a list of 10 reasons to ditch your dude – and reclaim your dignity: - He cheated. Sorry, ladies. There just isn’t a way around this one. I hate to be a naysayer, but if he did it once, he’ll probably do it again. There’s plenty of fish in the sea. Don’t waste your time with a slippery one who can’t be faithful.
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When an older man marries a younger woman, especially in the world of celebrities, no one bats an eyelash. It’s a dynamic that outdates Hollywood itself. Indeed, at one point it was even customary in some societies, long ago, when men were valued for the wisdom and status associated with age, while women were coveted for their beauty and youth. The reverse, however – an older women eloping with a younger man – is more rare, so its occurrence is generally met with greater uproar. Such was the case in the 2000s, when middle-aged actress Demi Moore started dating That 70s Show star Ashton Kutcher – who is 15 years her junior. Such a pairing seemed absurd: a few years older, and she could be his mother! Besides, what would this elegant, sexy star of Ghost and Indecent Proposal want with the prankster behind MTV’s Punk’d, beyond, well, his youth and beauty? And yet, against all odds, they tied the knot in 2005 and have been happily married ever since. Clearly, there’s more to their relationship than meets the eye. It’s simple: it’s in the signs. Ashton was born at the tail-end of the year of the Earth Horse, while Demi was born under the Water Tiger. Like the two lovers, those signs may seem quite opposite, but in fact, they complement each other well. As a Tiger, Demi desires a lover, not a father figure, so Ashton’s boyishness could actually be a positive trait. But once again, appearances can be deceiving, and the element of Earth suggests a maturity that Ashton’s playful demeanor belies. In any case, both Tigers and Horses are known for their independence and restlessness, which may frustrate the gentler, clingier Sheep, but allows people like Kutcher and Moore to understand each other in a unique way. Perhaps it’s high time we stopped assuming their marriage is a new spin on an old tale, considering instead that it could be something timeless: true love!
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The latest news in the world of celebrity coupledom is about Kristen Cavallari cozying up to Chicago Bears quarterback, Jay Cutler. What Kristen, former reality TV star of L aguna Beach and The Hills doesn’t know, however, is that she might have her work cut out for her. Kristen is a Fire Tiger, born in the year 1987, while her new beau is a 1983-born Water Pig. What does that mean for their budding romance? While there may be a bit of trouble in paradise, the two can probably form a lasting relationship if they work on their differences. Tigers are notorious for their independence.
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The cock-a-doodle-doo of the Rooster will be heard this month, which can lead to some quirky bedroom behavior. Our feathered friend has one interesting characteristic when it comes to sex—a fondness for fetishes. While you might think they’re freaky, fetishes are actually fairly normal. In fact, everyone is likely to have at least one. So, what’s yours? Here’s a list of the top 10 fetishes and how you can use them to your advantage based on your Chinese Animal Sign: - Feet and hands—What is it about strong fingers or perfect toes that make you lust for someone’s limbs? If you’re a Monkey or a Dragon, you probably love holding hands or giving foot rubs.
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If you haven’t seen the hit CW show, Gossip Girl, you’re missing out on one of Hollywood’s hottest young couples. The on-screen romance between Blake Lively and Penn Badgley turned into an off-screen relationship that’s spilling into tabloids and gossip columns all over the world. Given their Chinese animals signs, it’s easy to see why these two are a hot item. They have a very good chance to defy the celebrity stereotype and enjoy lasting love. Blake is a Fire Rabbit, born August 25th, 1987. Her beau, Penn, is a Fire Tiger, born November 1, 1986. Fire and Fire? Perfect recipe for sizzling romance. If we take a closer look, however, we’ll see that their Animal signs are also very compatible.
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